I wouldn't want to end up confused and distracted.

of course it is inevitable, but do guide me dear Allah.

and there's other issue that kinda bothers me.

*this morning conversation between me and her*

(conversation was in malay actually (: )

me: I am very annoyed at the perspective of the tudung 'labuh' girls are the always ones who is pious and solehah. and the ones like us are likewise. dont you think so?

her: Yeah, i often get that too. i think it is unfair to anyone who have that kind of perspective.

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so this kind of issue always makes me ponder and wonder. and so you kinda get that i'm not wearing a tudung labuh. why why why do people judge people based on appearance and clothings? and take note, i'm NOT criticising tudung labuh or any kind of scarf. i get that kind of perspective shown/told to me all the time. plus, i know that wearing a longer scarf is better but please don't judge. be it directly or not.

last note, Surah Al-Hujurat :13 " the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you' .

Peace, wassalam ♥